The Case of the Allergic Bride

Joyce and Nolan Holdridge married in San Francisco on March 3, 1947. He was a watchmaker, recently out of the Navy. She was a telephone operator.

At first their marriage was a happy one, but a few months after their wedding Joyce began to grow sick. Her eyes reddened and swelled shut. She broke out in an irritating skin rash that covered her from head to toe.

Joyce sought help from doctors, psychiatrists, and skin specialists, but in vain. Eventually her condition grew so bad that she was hospitalized at the Veterans Administration Hospital in San Francisco. And it was here, while she was under constant observation, that the doctors noticed an unusual pattern to Joyce's outbreaks.

While she was at the hospital, her symptoms gradually subsided, but when she visited her husband each weekend they promptly flared up again. Soon the doctors arrived at a startling conclusion. Joyce appeared to be allergic to her husband.

Separation The Only Option

Further observation made it clear that Joyce wasn't reacting to a cologne her husband was wearing, or some other chemical irritant that could easily be removed. She appeared to be allergic to the man himself. His mere presence. In fact, even mentioning her husband's name caused Joyce to break out in hives.

The doctors diagnosed Joyce's allergy as neurodermatitis, and counseled her that all attempts at a cure would be futile as long as she was living with her husband.

So in March 1948, a year after getting married, Joyce and Nolan began living apart. He stayed in San Francisco and she moved to Los Angeles. This cured Joyce's rash, but eventually the couple decided that living separate lives, while still married, didn't make sense. So in July 1949, Joyce filed for divorce from Nolan.

Divorce Trial

The divorce trial was held in the Los Angeles Superior Court of Judge Ray Brockmann on July 25, 1949. Nolan didn't attend, as he wasn't disputing the facts.

Joyce told the judge that she had no complaint about her husband's behavior. In fact, he was "the finest husband a woman could ask for" and she loved him deeply, but every time they were together she broke out in a rash from head to toe. So at the advice of physicians and psychiatrists, she had to leave him.

To back up this claim she produced a medical report from Dr. Gordon Dayton of the San Francisco Veterans Hospital who wrote, "[Joyce] had been suffering from a severe generalized dermatitis manifested by reddened, swollen, itching and scaling areas most marked over the hands, forearms, chest, neck, face and thighs. It soon became evident that there was something physical in the home or about the person of her husband to which she was sensitive."

\Determining Fault

Judge Brockmann listened with sympathy to Joyce's presentation of her case. However, there was a problem. In order to grant a divorce, it had to be shown that one of the spouses was at fault, and it wasn't clear that anyone's behavior was to blame in this case.

It used to be a standard requirement in American law that a couple could only get divorced if one of the spouses was at "fault" for causing the breakdown of the marriage. Actions that constituted fault included adultery, abandonment, or cruelty.

Divorce-seekers would regularly stretch facts in order to argue that their spouse was somehow to blame for ruining the marriage. For instance, one man complained that the snores of his wife's dog had made it impossible to sleep in the same room with her. In another case, a wife charged that her husband would cruelly shut off his hearing aid so that he couldn't hear her side of arguments. Similar strange marital complaints were a regular feature in weird news columns of the time.

It was only in 1970 that California made "no-fault" divorces legal, allowing couples to separate simply because they wanted to. All other states eventually followed suit.

But in 1949, demonstrating fault was still the legal requirement to obtain a divorce, and Judge Brockmann didn't think that an allergic reaction was anyone's fault. So he pressed Joyce for details, trying to determine if Nolan was ever cruel to her.

Joyce suggested the allergy was cruelty, but the judge disagreed, and with that he denied her request, ruling that being allergic to your spouse was not grounds for divorce.


Joyce's case caused a popular sensation. Headlines trumpeted the case of the "allergic bride." One widely reprinted photo showed Joyce holding her pet dog "Taffy." The caption noted that although she was allergic to her husband, the dog didn't seem to bother her in the least.

Newspapers generally treated the case as yet another example of the "silly" reasons that people got divorced. However, Joyce's effort to obtain a divorce received a flood of popular support, particularly from women. Judge Brockmann reported receiving hundreds of letters, mostly from wives, urging him to reconsider his ruling. A number of these letter writers claimed that, like Joyce, they were allergic to their husbands. Wrote one woman, "This is a real cause for divorce. It is a cause made by nature — not by man."


Thankfully Joyce and Nolan were not doomed to remain married forever. Judge Brockmann suggested that there was another legal option available to end their marriage — annulment. Unlike a divorce, an annulment could be granted on the basis of "physical incompatability." There was no need to determine fault.

So in September Nolan filed suit, asking that his marriage be dissolved since Joyce could not perform her "wifely duties." Judge Brockmann again heard the case, but this time he promptly granted an annulment, allowing Joyce and Nolan to go their separate ways. Some years later Nolan remarried, and there was no report that his new wife developed any allergic reaction to him. What became of Joyce is not known.


Joyce and Nolan's case was seen as being a first of its kind, setting a legal precedent. But Judge Brockmann warned others not to try to get out of marriage on "allergy grounds" unless they could produce valid medical evidence that would withstand a "scrutinizing judicial eye."

Inevitably his advice was ignored, and throughout the 1950s a number of wives (Rose Savenick of Los Angeles, Zelam Ansley of Seattle, Virginia Miller of Beverly Hills, etc.) filed for divorce on the grounds that they were allergic to their husbands. All won their cases, perhaps because of the precedent set by Joyce and Nolan. Eventually the adoption of "no-fault" divorce laws made it unnecessary for women to plead allergies to get out of a marriage.

But what about the men? Was spousal allergy a problem that only affected wives? In fact, the media did report about a few husbands who were allergic to their wives, but for whatever reason these husbands didn't seek divorces. For instance, in 1962 Dr. Michael O'Donnell wrote in the British medical magazine Family Doctor about a man who had developed asthma because he was allergic to his wife. However, "It was not until the death of the wife—a formidable and overpowering lady—that the doctors made their discovery," wrote the physician. Because on the day of her death, the man's asthma attacks stopped. "He has never had an attack since," observed O'Donnell.
     Posted By: Alex - Wed Sep 09, 2015
     Category: Health | Wives | Divorce

Wonder what did become of her. Great story Alex!
Posted by Patty in Ohio, USA on 09/09/15 at 07:48 PM
Then there's so-called sperm allergy, when a woman is allergic to semen, sometimes of a particular man. Here's a link:
Posted by ges on 09/09/15 at 11:34 PM
I suffer from a form of this. Every time I get close to (or sometimes even see photos of) really, really hot women my localized Medusa Syndrome kicks in.
Posted by Expat47 in Athens, Greece on 09/09/15 at 11:44 PM
The judge should get credit for compassion and creative thinking for suggesting an annulment. Good work, Alex.
Posted by KDP on 09/10/15 at 07:27 AM
I thought of that too ges!

Expat, does that allergic reaction cause swelling and discharge too?
Posted by Patty in Ohio, USA on 09/10/15 at 02:26 PM
@Patty: Swelling almost 100% of the time. Discharge occasionally. You think I need to see a doctor?
Posted by Expat47 in Athens, Greece on 09/10/15 at 08:53 PM
100%of the time?! That's pretty good honey.
Posted by Patty in Ohio, USA on 09/10/15 at 09:32 PM
Fortunately I've never had the "RASH".

BUT I have a strange problem on this "Weird Site" right now.
On the right you SHOULD get, on the right and half way down, a yellow 'Weird Universe' logo. Below that is a blue bar with yellow letters~~ .[..[ Recent Comments ]..]

Yup I still get it on my Windows computer.

But, it has disappeared from my Linex Ubantu computer. I have run it in Firefox and Chrome.

Why??? I'd like to know?
Posted by BMN on 09/10/15 at 10:03 PM
@BMN: Bill Gates has been personally alerted to your disloyalty and you can expect a visit real soon from the "We're not a monopoly!" police. You should be ready to defend your actions or demonstrate that you have recanted your evil ways and rejected that vile penguinesque OS you so recently admitted using. :coolmad:
Posted by Expat47 in Athens, Greece on 09/10/15 at 10:40 PM
Oh for the glory days where you could turn a nyble into a byte.
Posted by BMN on 09/11/15 at 04:39 AM
@BMN: Strange that the "recent comments" aren't showing up. There's a bit of PHP script that identifies the most recent comments, but that works server-side, so shouldn't be affected by whatever computer system you're using.

When I made the site "mobile friendly" I set the "recent comments" to NOT appear on small devices, such as phones and ipads (for reasons I can't remember now... but I'm sure they were good reasons). So maybe the browser thinks you're using a small device?
Posted by Alex on 09/11/15 at 06:44 AM
I'll bet you 00010010 to 0001 that 11000011% of programmers today don't have a clue what a nyble is or how to use one if they did.
Posted by Expat47 in Athens, Greece on 09/11/15 at 07:52 AM
@Alex: My first thought was "Is it them or me". My other computer running Win10 and Chrome proved that it worked. I was using Firefox on my Ubantu machine, so I launched Chrome with the same bad result.

So it seems that for some reason my desktop Ubantu , not the my browsers, is the problem.

So: Does any other Linex user out there have the same problem?
Posted by BMN on 09/11/15 at 01:28 PM
@BMN: I used "Bootstrap" ( to make the site mobile friendly, and according to the Bootstrap website, they say Linux is not officially supported for it (although they also say that, unofficially, it should mostly work fine). So I'm guessing that's the source of the weird behavior.
Posted by Alex on 09/15/15 at 07:34 AM
@Alex: One thing that CAN'T be the problem. I bought a new computer and replaced it's hard drive with my hard drive running Linex Ubantu. When I have some spare time I will swap my Win drive and Linex. It is also time to reload and shed all garbage.
Posted by BMN on 09/15/15 at 02:50 PM
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